Note: These tips apply if you are a guy who wants to get back with your girlfriend
There are many ways to get your ex boyfriend back and sometimes, you may even think of desperate moves hoping that he will go back in your arms. Unfortunately, desperation will not give you good results and might repel him even more. In anything that you want in life, the more desperate you are, the more you fail on it. Having the inspiration and faith is better to achieve that goal.
Here are some ideas to start attracting your ex boyfriend back without being too being too desperate.
(1) Look good. Change your look with a new haircut. If you have drained all your tears after the breakup, you have to find ways to recover. Grieve in private and when you are done with all the anger and the pain, a good makeover will at least help you get that boost of confidence to move on. Not only that. If your ex sees you with that new alluring look, he might just find ways to get in touch with you.
(2) Enjoy a new hobby or learn new interests. Having a new interest in your life will ease up the pain and the hurt about the breakup, but most importantly, if you find a good hobby or a new interest and you end up doing very good with it, you will also impress your ex boyfriend showing him what he is missing. Show him there is more to what he knew about you. The more you can show that you can manage your life well independently, the more he will admire you for that.
(3) Meet new friends. If you have been so focused with your relationship before, you must have missed making new friends. So it could be a good time to meet new people and be happy. If your ex boyfriend sees you attracting a lot of friends, he may want to get closer to you too.
(4) Say nothing about him. Sometimes the hurt of being dumped makes you want to yell and tell the whole world how rotten is your ex-boyfriend. Be careful though. Negative talks may prevent any future reconciliation.
(5) Help others. Helping others will also help you take your mind off from the mixed emotions that you may feel after the breakup. It will also help you get over the desperation of wanting to get in touch with your ex boyfriend. Show him your worth. It will make your ex boyfriend feel you are worthy to be loved.
The ways to get your ex boyfriend back may not be things that you need to do to him to convince him not to leave you. If you have noticed, these are all things about yourself; improving yourself, taking control of your life, making yourself a positive force to the people around you. Most often, these are the qualities that you need to attract not only your ex boyfriend back to you but also other people.
Try to stay positive. However, if you feel that your relationship is not headed anywhere, be ready to gracefully accept this too.